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Clique pet peeve

One of my biggest pet peeves for me is cliques. The one reason why I am totally against cliques is because when your not part of a clique in any group or work setting. You feel like your all alone and left out of the clique. I think that cliques are a very bad thing and if you not part of a clique, you often feel like you not part of the group or in thing. It breeds problems such as feeling left out, alone and makes you feel like the group as a whole doesn’t want you.

Cliques are a very bad thing because, for me, being left out of a group and clique makes you feel as if you not important, welcomed in the group or even made to feel as if your with a group. I know for myself, I have been in groups, where cliques have a tight social group and where if your not part of them, your left out of the group as a whole. Where as a result, you get the cold reception and feeling that your not wanted anywhere.  Even within larger groups, their are cliques who will tease, torment or even get rid of someone in a larger group, just because that person is not part of a clique or the in crowed.

That’s why cliques are one of my biggest pet peeves ever and when someone is not part of a clique or made to feel as if they are included in a group. That bugs me and that pisses me off as well. I am against cliques and people having cliques because they don’t make people feel welcomed in a larger group and they don’t make them feel as if they are part of a team. They distance people because either how they act, dress, say or think and to me, that is very wrong.

For me, I don’t like cliques because cliques are not part of a team concept and working as a team. cliques are very counter productive for a team and cliques are just the same as a bully and I too have been on the receiving end of cliques wrath. Cliques in general can destroy someone’s mental health and feelings. The can bully, and make someone feel as if they are not wanted or welcomed in the group.

So if you are in a larger group that has a clique. Tell them to invite someone who is sitting alone, in the back or on the sidelines. Stop cliques and stop cliques from bullying, intimidating and harassing someone. Invite the person into the clique and make them feel welcomed into the group. Talk to them often and even have a lunch with them. For me, Cliques are the reason why we see school shootings, violence and people fighting with each other alot. Preach inclusiveness and include everyone including the new person.

So for me, one of my biggest pet peeves in the world is cliques and being left out of a group or clique. Cliques are what get me pissed off and cliques are the reason why when your not made to feel welcomed or part of the group, you often find yourself feeling as if your alone, not wanted, depressed and very angry.

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