My Name is Nick K.D. Chaleunphone. My full give name is Nick (Nilavong) Khamhou Dethoudom Chaleunphone. I’m sometimes called Nicky around my family and friends. My Laotian given name is Nilavong, which is a Laotian girls name and it was given to me at birth by my parents. I’m from the state of Connecticut, USA. I am 37 years old. I’m from Laos but was born in Thailand in a refugee camp where they escaped Laos during the Vietnam war. I am a Firefighter/EMT-Basic. I am a member of the US Coast Guard Auxiliary and I have been with them since October of 2005.
About who I am and what am I, I am 37 year’s old, but people look at me as if I am 19 or 23 years old. The fact that I look 10 years younger than my age, a feat that most people will never achieve in their lifetime. I’ve had people in the past confuse me for a 21 or 22 year old instead of a 37 year old. I’m gifted with the “your lucky to look younger than your age Syndrome”. I’m just your typical tomboy and someone who’s trying to be me, regardless what people may say or think about me. I’m just an out going person trying to just be me and not someone else. I see myself as just being me and I see myself as my own gender and not someone else’s image or who they think i should be. I’m more of the tomboy crazy, sexy, cool type. I like to have fun and yes I enjoy life on the edge to the point of falling off. I’m very outgoing and very adventurous type of a person. Though I am shy person at first, I do warm up a bit afterwards.
I am a poet and a published writer. I have written two books and they are “The Immortal Poet” and “My world through my eyes”. I write poetry as a form of therapy and a way to cope with all the things that go on in my life. My type of poetry is free base, anything goes. Though I do model my writings after Robert Frost. I like to write poetry from one extreme to the other and I let it all go in my writings.
I’m an intersex born with Kallmann’s Syndrome. I was diagnosed with Kallmann’s syndrome since 1983. I do have some breast growth, a micro penis and my genitals are ambiguous from birth. I can’t reproduce and I can’t have kids, which stinks and that suits me fine. I do look physically like a tomboy, but not like a normal biological one because heck, I don’t look like normal genetic man in the first place. I’m just somewhere in between or as I call it I’m my own self. I’m also hearing impaired on my right ear. Which I can only hear in my left ear and that’s why I sometimes talk so loud is because I am compensating for my hearing loss.
My religion is Buddhism and I was and still raised on the Buddhist teachings and practices.I’m big on technology and I’m into computers, blogging, social media and the Internet that is infused with society today. I’m also a social media geek as well. I’m a computer geek and yes I like action games and simulations, especially first person shooter games and flight sim games such as Flightgear, MS Flight sim, Call of Duty4, Modern warfare and Janes F/A-18 hornet.
I’m a college student and my major is Bachelor of Science Liberal Arts. I hoping to someday end up working as a Flight Nurse or a Family Nurse Practitioner or even end up as a Physician Assistant.
Snowboarding, swimming, Mt-biking, hiking, skinny-dipping, Nudism, poetry, music, computers, gaming, camping, Fishing and blogging.
My favorite Music
My favorite TV Show
Blackhawk Down, Saving Private Ryan, U571, XXY, Mr & Mrs Smith, Tomb Raider, Madagascar and Madagascar 2, The Guardian.
My Favorite Foods
Italian, Chinese, Vietnamese, Laotian and American.
My Favorite Ice cream
Mint chocolate chip, Chocolate Chip
My Favorite Colors
Black, Maroon, Navy blue, Green
My Favorite Coffee Drink
Dunkin Donuts, 7-11 and Green Mountain.
My Pet Peeves
Cliques, bullies, Stalkers and cyber bullies, Anonymous bloggers, Silent treatment, Cold shoulder.
My Turn Ons
I do like people who have an outgoing attitude. I like people who I can have something in common with and be cool with them
My Turn offs
I don’t like it when people piss me off. I don’t like it when people play with me. It turns me off when people disrespect me and try to push me out.