Today, I had another awesome day at Solair Nudist Resort in Woodstock, Connecticut. The weather was perfect, the temperature was perfect and the water was perfect. Overall, my day at Solair was perfect. I had a great time at Solair today and went skinny dipping, swam in the pond and even had a wine & cheese nude social hour. I enjoyed the afternoon at Solair and liked the place very much because it allowed me to be me and doesn’t impose sex, gender and gender identity politics me. Even as an Intersex person, I am very accepted in the Nudist community and they don’t impose sex, gender and gender identity politics me. They simply treat me as a human being and don’t label me as male or female. Which is perfect because for me as an Intersex/DSD person, I’m neither a biological man or a biological woman. I’m simply an Intersex/DSD person. The nice part of being in the Nudist resort, was that I was treated like one of the girls, because of my intersex condition and the women at Solair treated me like them. They didn’t see me as male or female, but a human being like them.
As far as being at Solair Nudist Resort, I enjoyed my day so much. I got to meet new people, made some new friends and seriously considering Solair my home Nudist resort. I got a chance to walk around the resort nude and feel the warmth of the sun bathing my skin and feel the nice breeze flowing through my body. When I jumped into the swimming pool, It felt a huge weight of stress lifted off of me.I was swimming in the pool and floating around that I felt like I was in another world. I spent a few times in the hot tub working on my sore spots of my body, which helped loosen my sore muscles. I also got a chance to spend some times in the sauna to ponder, reflect and think about things. That day being nude was so awesome because it made me feel like a person and I didn’t have to be pressured to be male or female. I simply was a person with an intersex condition in a nudist resort.
The nice part of it all was that wine & cheese social hour, which was totally cool and a great time to mingle with people. It was great to socialize, meet and hang out with other nudist and socialize. I got a chance to drink and eat, even talk socially without having to push my label and identity on to people. It was a relaxed and comfortable atmosphere and it made me feel accepted as a person without any labels or identities. The social introduced me to a lot of other people who were Nudist like me and were comfortable talking to each other, naked and clothes free. I got to meet people, made some new friends and even socialize over wine and cheese.
I got to be nude and comfortable with myself as an Intersex/DSD person and a Nudist as well. I got comfortable in accepting my intersex body for what it is in the Nudist community and learning to accept the fact that I’m never gonna be male or female no matter how hard my doctors try. I learn that I am comfortable that I may not have a normal female body and a normal male body and to be very comfortable with what I have. It’s why Nudism is something that has advanced my acceptance of my intersex body and all the flaws that come with an Intersex body. It’s why I always tell people, that I’m comfortable with being born with an Intersex condition and all the flaws and imperfections that come with an Intersex body such as Micropenis, ambiguous genitalia. Even a natural body that is neither Male or female. It’s why Nudism is great because it helps you overcome body issues and teaches you to accept your body for what it is. Even an Intersex body is accepted in the Nudist community because it’s natural occurring and common.
As an Intersex person and someone who’s deaf in one ear, I’m seriously ready for a relationship. I’m tired of being single and overlooked by people. The one problem with that, it’s hard for people to get past the fact that I’m born with an Intersex condition and I look younger than my age. For so many years, I have no dated any women because I felt I was being left out of the dating pool and overlooked. It’s why the one thing that is so tough on Intersex people like myself is finding a meaningful relationship. Which is why dating and relationship is one of the hardest things Intersex people like me have to face with our medical condition. That’s why it’s hard for intersex people to be in a dating relationship. It’s caused not many people would want to deal with someone who’s Intersex and has massive health issues associated with being intersex.
It’s why for me, dating and relationship is one of those things I have not done in my life. I never had a long term relationship or have ever been on a serious date with a biological woman. I’m often so overlooked that bio women hardly ever notice me. Its why dating to me is such a barrier because I never was able to jump past that barrier. All the girls I was friends with, never went beyond the friends zone. I suspect because being born with an Intersex condition, being deaf in one ear and having ambiguous genitalia. Women don’t want to deal with someone who has medical and health issues. It’s why I am always left behind the dating and relationship scene, when others are in a relationship and dating.
I never liked online dating sites because I always saw them as being a scam and that they were only set up for a curtain type of person. If you didn’t fit the type that people were looking for, you were left out and never looked at. It’s why I never liked online dating sites and always saw them as a scam and elitist because they only wanted curtain people for their online dating sites. It’s why I never bothered to deal with online dating or dating sites in general.
It’s why I am always looking for someone who can have fun with me, deal with my independence and deal with my medical issues. I’m always looking for someone who can overlook my micropenis, ambiguous genitalia and see me for who I am. I’m always looking for someone who’s comfortable with their own skin, body and is comfortable with being nude like me. Above all, I’m always looking for someone who can tolerate and deal with my personality and style. Even though I look younger than my age, I am always hoping that I can find someone that can look past that. I try to find that relationship, but I always keep my door open for when ever that relationship walks though.
That’s why as an Intersex person, dating and relationships are one of the hardest things that Intersex people have to face. It’s one of the hardest things I have to deal with as an Intersex person because people I want to be with don’t want to deal with Intersex people and their medical issues. It’s why after all these years, it amazes me that I can get this far in life and still be single Intersex person. I wonder how long I can do this before I fall into a relationship?
Today I had an interesting day trip, I went out with a friend to Solair Nudist resort in Woodstock, Ct. It was very quiet place because the place was winding down and people were getting ready to head south for the winter. Even though, I finally got to see Solair Nudist resort, that was talked about in Nudist circles and finally set foot in Solair Nudist resort. So when I go there, it was still running and quiet because the Nudist season in New England is winding down and winter is approaching. So today was one of those days, I got the chance to be Nude and be outside nude. Even though it was cooler outside, I still was able to mange to be outside nude and swam nude.
When I go to Solair, I had to sign in the office, being that it was my first time in their Nudist resort and also being unaffiliated with any of the National Nudist resorts like AANR and TNS. Then I was given the tour of Solair by a man named Bob in a Yellow HAT. I got to see some of the Cabins and some of campgrounds that I may come up during the Summer and Camp out at. I even saw the Nudist Library, Community center, Nude beach, outdoor heated pool and the Hot tub. I like the tour very much because the place made you feel like home and a family. They even showed the gender neutral showers and bathroom, which I liked very much because being born Intersex, I hate using Men’s bathroom. Which is why I like the Nudist resorts because all the bathrooms are gender neutral and don’t have to worry.
After the tour, I immediately, got down and striped down to my skin, went for a cool dip in the pool and swam for a bit. It felt very warm and very nice, to feel free from the clothes. I was able to walk around completely nude and comfortable in my own skin. The people at solair were very accepting of me regardless of my Intersex condition and my ambiguous genitalia being out in the open. The place made me feel very accepted as a person and I didn’t have to worry about fitting into the Male or Female Standard. I liked spending my time in the hot tub cause it was very warm and it relaxed all my muscles in my body. I was so relaxed naked in the hot tub and I got to meet many other nudists as well including women as well.
In my opinion, Solair is like a Minor leagues of Nudist resorts and is perfect for those who are well experienced in Nudism and have gone to smaller Nudist resorts like Juniper woods to get introduced to Nudism. I like Solair so much because it was in my own backyard and finally was able to make a Visit to Solair Nudist Resort. I was glad I was able to see Solair Nudist Resort and I was glad that I got my chance to be nude outside for the year. So if you want to visit Solair, it would be best to visit when it is very active and has a very vibrant scene. Though the place is very nice, Solair Nudist resort in Woodstock, Ct is highly recommended in my book and it’s one of the places to visit and try Nudism for yourself and in person.