This is a good video on the Biology and psychology of sex and gender. This is a good video to explain biology and psychology of sex, gender and Intersex people like myself. It’s a very good lecture that anyone with time and sit and listen to.
As an Intersex/DSD person and a Nudist, my body is constantly being assaulted, erased and sexualized by society and many different people. My body as an Intersex/DSD is not the same as everyone. It’s neither male nor female and doesn’t have a biological sex of male or female. It’s no different from everyone else other than being born into a body that doesn’t have a sex or a gender. It has its flaws and imperfections, and almost everyone has their flaws and imperfections in their body. Which is why my body is no different from anyone else. It’s only different because of what I am born with.
My Intersex body is always assaulted by medical science who tries so hard to erase me and try to pigeon-hole me into the male and female gender system. They try to erase intersex people like me because people like me are comfortable with the skin I am in and happy with all the flaws and imperfections I am born with. Medical science tries so hard to erase the existence of Intersex/DSD people such as myself. They deny my existence and deny me as a human being. Medicine tries so hard to erase my medical condition and try to deny its existence. Medical science is fearful that an Intersex body like mines is not as perfect as they want to be and it doesn’t fit their view of what is a Male body and a Female body. One thing it tries to do is erase me as an Intersex person because they don’t like intersex people like me accepting our body for what it is and being comfortable with it. Which is why medicine is not comfortable with Intersex bodies and people like me who are Intersex and very accepting of our bodies and every flaw and imperfection that comes with it.
The other way my body get’s assaulted, is when you have creepy people who sexualized and fetishize my Intersex body. There are people out their who have sexualized and fetishized Intersex bodies and Intersex people like me. Their are even some within the LGBT community who have been known to use intersex people like me as props and pawns for their agenda. They even use them to legitimize and justify their agenda at my expense and dignity. I have even seen instances where some people have sexualized the intersex in a way that is very pornographic. I have seen where some have sexualized Intersex people and even make them look like as if being born with an Intersex condition is a sex and gender identity. Which is why an Intersex body such as mine is often sexualized by people because they think it’s kinky or porn like. They often see it as an excuse or a way to legitimize their agenda at their expense.
It’s why Intersex people like me have a hard time accepting our intersex bodies for what it is, when you have medical science who tries so hard to erase intersex people and you have people who sexualized and fetishize Intersex people. Intersex/DSD people such as myself need to have body acceptance and body freedom. We need to be comfortable and accepting of all our flaws and imperfections that were born with. We need to be happy with what we’re born with and know that No amount of surgery in the world is every going to an Intersex person happy. It’s why if their happy with their body and happy with all the flaws and imperfections. They will have that kind of happiness that surgery can never give.
It’s why as a Nudist myself, I am comfortable with my Intersex body. I am comfortable with all the flaws, Imperfections that I am born with. I know not too many people can say that their happy with all their body parts, but for me, I am happy with all of mine including my micropenis and my youthful look. I’m happy with the fact that my intersex flaws and imperfections makes me a very unique person and makes me very different. I contribute to the fact that being a nudist and being comfortable with my own skin, shows that I am very accepting of my Intersex body for what it is. It shows that I don’t need surgery to be happy, and I can be happy without surgery or any invasive medical intervention. Nudism has done wonderful things in terms of body acceptance and body freedom. As an Intersex person, I don’t have to be pressured in to the male and female system, and I can still be happy with who I am and be myself.
Which is why as an Intersex person and a Nudist, I am very comfortable with myself and all the flaws and Imperfections that I am born with. My intersex body is always assaulted by medical science who tries their hardest to erase intersex people like me. Even their have been people who have tried to sexualized and fetishize Intersex people like me as well. It’s why I try my hardest to be above them and above the influence to be myself and just be me regardless of what society and science say about Intersex people like me. I often say this, ” It’s hard to be someone else, but very easy to just be me”
Once more I find myself telling people that naturism is a great thing and how good it is now that the weather has turned for the better. I have to clarify too what naturism isn’t and why naturists should be respected just like every other member of the human race. I enjoy naturism, I love being naked, it makes me feel alive and most important it makes me feel good about myself.
This is why people need to learn to respect their inner beauty within and not be pressured to what society and people expect out of us. We should learn to appreciate more of ourselves and appreciate the body and skin were in. Which is why as a Nudist and an Intersex person, I can appreciate all the flaws and imperfections that I am born with. Even be happy with what I have and learn to appreciate the things I have within me. It why people today put way too much emphasis on appearance instead of inner beauty.
One thing I have noticed as an Intersex/DSD person and a Nudist, is that when you accept your body for what it is, you come to terms with all the flaws and imperfections that come with being born with an Intersex/DSD condition and being a nudist. I have learned that not amount of surgery in the world would ever make me happy for who I am and what I am. Which is why as an Intersex/DSD person and a nudist, I am happy with the body I am born with. I’m comfortable in my own skin and even not a shame with all the flaws and imperfections that I am born with.
The thing I find very hard within the Intersex/DSD community is that there is no acceptance of their own bodies. Intersex/DSD people are not accepting themselves for who they are. Their not comfortable in their own skin and their own genitals. The reason for that, is pressure from medicine, society and people. It’s pressure from the medical community to hide and deny Intersex and DSD people their bodies and existence. Their’s pressure from society into pigeon holing Intersex and DSD people into the biological Male and Female gender. Even the Trans community has even put pressure and try to push Intersex and DSD people into gender/genital surgery. Which is why Intersex people have such a hard time in accepting their Intersex bodies. There is no one out their to tell Intersex/DSD people who it’s okay to be born with an Intersex/DSD body and to be happy with what you have.
Which is why for me for me, as an Intersex/DSD person and a Nudist, I’m very comfortable in my own skin. I’m happy with what I have including all the flaws such as Micropenis, ambiguous genitals, and small breast growth. I’m comfortable with the fact I look years younger than my age. Why I am comfortable in my own skin, is that Nudism’s philosophy is all about body acceptance. It’s learning to accept your body for what it is and learning to deal with what you have. Nudism has shown that no body is perfect and it’s okay to have flaws and imperfections. Even being born with an Intersex/DSD body is perfectly okay and natural. Nudism is a way to say, I am happy with my body as it is. I’m comfortable with who I am and all the flaws and imperfections that I am born with.
It’s why, if Intersex/DSD people gave Nudism a chance, they can see that there is nothing wrong with their bodies and everyone is born with imperfections and flaws. Nudism even shows, that you don’t need surgery to be happy with who you are. You just have to be comfortable with your own skin and learn to deal with what your naturally born with. For me, I’m not ashamed of my Intersex/DSD body. I’m comfortable with my Intersex/DSD body and no surgery in the world would make me happy Nudism has made me happy with my body and accepting of my intersex/DSD body for what it is.
It’s why I advocate that Intersex/DSD people need learn about body acceptance and learn to accept their Intersex body for what it is. You don’t need those artificial acceptance, that medicine, society and people pressure Intersex/DSD people. They just need to learn to accept themselves and accept their body that their born with. Even learn to be comfortable with the skin their born with. Which is why I am one of the few Intersex/DSD people who are also a Nudist and have been a nudist for a long time.
- Being an Intersex Nudist; Nicky’s Story (homeclothesfree.com)