As an Intersex person and someone who’s deaf in one ear, I’m seriously ready for a relationship. I’m tired of being single and overlooked by people. The one problem with that, it’s hard for people to get past the fact that I’m born with an Intersex condition and I look younger than my age. For so many years, I have no dated any women because I felt I was being left out of the dating pool and overlooked. It’s why the one thing that is so tough on Intersex people like myself is finding a meaningful relationship. Which is why dating and relationship is one of the hardest things Intersex people like me have to face with our medical condition. That’s why it’s hard for intersex people to be in a dating relationship. It’s caused not many people would want to deal with someone who’s Intersex and has massive health issues associated with being intersex.
It’s why for me, dating and relationship is one of those things I have not done in my life. I never had a long term relationship or have ever been on a serious date with a biological woman. I’m often so overlooked that bio women hardly ever notice me. Its why dating to me is such a barrier because I never was able to jump past that barrier. All the girls I was friends with, never went beyond the friends zone. I suspect because being born with an Intersex condition, being deaf in one ear and having ambiguous genitalia. Women don’t want to deal with someone who has medical and health issues. It’s why I am always left behind the dating and relationship scene, when others are in a relationship and dating.
I never liked online dating sites because I always saw them as being a scam and that they were only set up for a curtain type of person. If you didn’t fit the type that people were looking for, you were left out and never looked at. It’s why I never liked online dating sites and always saw them as a scam and elitist because they only wanted curtain people for their online dating sites. It’s why I never bothered to deal with online dating or dating sites in general.
It’s why I am always looking for someone who can have fun with me, deal with my independence and deal with my medical issues. I’m always looking for someone who can overlook my micropenis, ambiguous genitalia and see me for who I am. I’m always looking for someone who’s comfortable with their own skin, body and is comfortable with being nude like me. Above all, I’m always looking for someone who can tolerate and deal with my personality and style. Even though I look younger than my age, I am always hoping that I can find someone that can look past that. I try to find that relationship, but I always keep my door open for when ever that relationship walks though.
That’s why as an Intersex person, dating and relationships are one of the hardest things that Intersex people have to face. It’s one of the hardest things I have to deal with as an Intersex person because people I want to be with don’t want to deal with Intersex people and their medical issues. It’s why after all these years, it amazes me that I can get this far in life and still be single Intersex person. I wonder how long I can do this before I fall into a relationship?